tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85776961790638466042024-02-19T02:29:08.705-08:00True FeminismTitus 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their [husband's] children,
2:5 [To be] discreet, chaste, KEEPERS AT HOME, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Essential reading: The Way home or face The Fire http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.netTrue Feministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978735297370616551noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8577696179063846604.post-77187355621915018572017-01-24T11:59:00.000-08:002017-02-06T22:16:32.139-08:00Fraudulent government theft of your children - Agenda 21<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: white;"> Short link to this page: </span><a href="http://goo.gl/sMzmsO">goo.gl/sMzmsO</a><br />
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<span style="background-color: yellow;">Please watch :</span><span style="background-color: white;"> <span style="background-color: white;"><b>Why we must fight against child protection services </b></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="background-color: white;"><b> </b></span></span><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9ibfpUkDNY%C2%A0%20%C2%A0">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9ibfpUkDNY </a><b> </b><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><b>Exposure - please don't take my child</b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=va1N9r2Vieg"><span style="color: blue;">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=va1N9r2Vieg</span></a></span><br />
<b>CPS whistleblower Nancy Schaeffer</b><br />
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"If we want to
talk about equality of opportunity for children, then the fact that children
are raised in families means there's no equality . . . In order to raise
children with equality, <b>we must take them away from families and communally
raise them." </b>Dr. Mary Jo Bane, Clinton's Assistant Secretary of
Administration for Children and Families in the Department of Health and Human
Services.<o:p></o:p><br />
<a href="http://www.lovethetruth.com/government/public_schools/communist.htm"><span style="color: blue;">http://www.lovethetruth.com/government/public_schools/communist.htm</span></a><br />
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– The RESTRUCTURE of the family unit</b><o:p></o:p></div>
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“Children will be removed from their parents at an early-age
and brought up by wards as state-property.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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<a href="http://jahtruth.net/300old.htm">Jahtruth.net/300old.htm</a><o:p></o:p></div>
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"The primary control and custody of infants is with the
government" Tillman V. Roberts. 108 So. 62<o:p></o:p></div>
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“The Ultimate Delusion.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Deuteronomy 28:32 Thy sons and thy daughters [shall be]
given unto another people, and thine eyes shall look, and fail [with longing]
for them all the day long: and [there shall be] no might in thine hand.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">28:41 Thou shalt beget sons and daughters, but thou shalt
not enjoy them; for they shall go into captivity.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of My Knowledge:
because thou hast rejected My Knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou
shalt be no priest to Me: </span><b><span style="color: blue;">seeing thou hast forgotten The Law of thy God, I will
also forget thy children.</span><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>The Law COMMANDS that parents teach The Law to their children:</b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Deuteronmy 6:4 Hear, O Israel: The "I AM" our God
[is] one "I AM":<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">6:5 And thou shalt love the "I AM" thy God with
all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">6:6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be
in thine heart:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">6:7 <span style="background-color: yellow;"><b>And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children</b></span>,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest
by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">6:8 And thou shalt bind thine hand to them for a sign, and
they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes [that ye look not away].<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">6:9 And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house,
and on thy gates [for all to see and read].</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Christ confirms God's Laws are eternal:</b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">5:17<b> Think not that I am come to destroy The Law, or the
Prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfill</b>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">5:18 For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass,
one jot or one tittle shall in no way pass from The Law, till all be fulfilled.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">5:19 Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least
COMMANDments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the
Kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach [them], the same shall be
called great in the Kingdom of heaven.</span><o:p></o:p><br />
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<span class="style15b1"><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">“It is sheer folly to praise or to condemn your children.
Praising builds egos into conflict; so does condemning them. Never think for
one moment that condemning diminishes pride one bit, for it does just the
opposite, swelling a child’s pride through his secret resentment and judgment. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><br />
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<span class="style15b1">Once corrupted by praise, children often become addicts.
Because praise actually seduces, corrupts and weakens children, they develop a
lower and lower sense of self-worth. Addicted to praise, they will literally
sell their minds and souls for it. Praise, like all its cousins (music, drugs,
alcohol, etc.), actually lowers their worth under the <i>pretext</i> of raising
the spirit, because of what they must lower themselves to do to obtain it
(praise).</span></span></div>
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<span class="style15b1"><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Alas, on either end there are agonies of swollen pride. The
cruelty of degradation then could drive them back to the cruelty of praise,
until one day they become afraid of making changes and get stuck in a rut as
permanent victims of praise or condemnation. The pain could make them want to
shoot themselves and all those who are involved in love/hate games of praise
and condemnation. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><br />
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<span class="style15b1">So, acknowledge good performance, but never praise it.
Acknowledge bad performance, but don’t condemn it. There must never be
condemning or condoning in your words—no emotion or exaggeration of pleasure or
of displeasure. If your child draws a good picture and shows it to you for
comment, appraise it honestly without emotion. Give your honest opinion. Is it
quite good? Then say so calmly. Don’t pump up the child’s ego by
emotion-charged exclamations of "Magnificent!" and "Wow, you are
going to be a great artist!" (You could get them hung up on an artist’s
trip when they have no talent.) If the work could stand improvement, then you
might do well to ask your child if he welcomes constructive criticism. Chances
are, you will receive the go-ahead and then gentle criticism will be welcomed
and taken under serious consideration.</span></span><br />
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<span class="style15b1"><i><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><b>It’s all in your attitude</b>.<b> </b></span></i></span><span class="style15b1"><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><b>Love knows that
fine line of difference between acknowledgment and praise, between correcting
and condemning. Because love knows the difference, love begets a child of love,
free from the conditionings of the world.” </b></span></span></div>
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<span class="style15b1"><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">– <i>Proper Discipline</i> by <a href="http://www.fhu.com/">Roy Masters</a></span></span></div>
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True Feministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978735297370616551noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8577696179063846604.post-859095884254264622014-06-01T04:18:00.000-07:002014-07-20T00:38:55.871-07:00A Force called Love - resentment<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="style15b1"><span style="font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">The "authority" in most cases is responsible for
making kids worse while apparently trying to make them better. If power and
authority were your secret motive, you would never be out of work, simply
because you would be <i>creating</i> problems to solve by means of the very
process of "solving" them. </span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><br />
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<span class="style15b1">So it is very important to be patient when attempting to
correct other people. You must be forceful enough to drive the point home, but
without resentment. The force I speak of is love, a deep, abiding caring,
backed by the absolute certainty of the good you are doing and the knowledge of
what is right. Remember, you can’t be like that when <i>you</i> are upset and
angry too! Meditate on this fact before you go to war with the error in others.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background: white; color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Let the Truth, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">firmly</b> spoken, do its work. You must
not put effort or energy behind it. You</span></div>
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is engaged. Love gets through the old defenses. It has the effect of awakening
your child to see that you are right in what you say and in what you are. It
speaks love instead of hate, so he can accept that correction of love.</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><br />
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<span style="background: white;">The problem in this world lies with wrong
authority. People are hurt by all kinds of wrong authorities. However, it is
good for them to recognize and respond to a<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i>good<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span></i>authority because it reverses the
effect of responding to the<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i>bad</i><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>one.<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span></span><br />
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<span style="background: white;">I remember people giving me good advice which I
never took in my early years. Looking back, I realize that if those people who
gave those words of advice had spoken with love, it would have jolted me to
realize what I needed to realize then. I would not have made so many errors.”<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="background: white;"><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>- <a href="http://www.fhu.com/">Roy Masters</a><span class="apple-converted-space"> - <i>Proper Discipline</i></span></span></span></div>
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True Feministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978735297370616551noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8577696179063846604.post-2449410306734735752014-06-01T01:23:00.004-07:002017-01-29T08:29:08.409-08:00Clearing the mind<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="background-color: #fefdf5; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 15px;">A
wise old Indian chief once told his braves that inside him he had two
wolves fighting for supremacy -- one called love and the other hate.
When asked which one was winning, he answered: "The one I feed."</span><br />
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(....., please LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY. <br />
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You/<b>x,</b> have been lost in the human-brain-thinking of Mr/Miss/Mrs.<b>x</b>
ALL this life. You THINK that is you [your own voice in your head - the
one that gives you worries, etc.]. THAT is not you. But it does have
control over you/<b>x</b>. You NEED to start "seeing" this [spiritually] for yourself.<br />
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Go
find a quiet place [your bedroom, a closet, the bathroom, the attic,
the garage, the basement, your car {if you have one} - point being a
place where you will not be disturbed, where you can be alone] and sit
in a straight back chair [if possible - so you don't let your body go to
sleep].<br />
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Close your physical eyes.., and AS THOUGH you
were sitting in the back of your skull [or AS THOUGH you are sitting in
the back of a movie theater].., WATCH the "screen of your 'mind' "
[where "thought" arises - INSIDE the middle of your body's forehead].
Practice this. Be patient. Wait. Watch the JUNK going on in there.<br />
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You
will "see" worry. You will "see" fantasies [of all sorts, not just
sexual but even "imagined conversations" of what you might say if you
see so and so, or what you should have said when you saw so and so - you
will see "images" - you will "hear" songs off the radio {CD's or
whatever} - you may hear/see old TV commercials go through - JUNK,
meaningless JUNK.<br />
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Just
keep watching it WHILST putting some distance between you and that JUNK
going round in your "head". With a little practice you will soon learn
to ignore it and THROUGH observing it [like shining a light on it].., it
will just disappear into the ether/lose its power. Your "mind" will
clear and almost certainly will "fill again" with more JUNK. Just keep
observing. DO NOT get pulled into your "thoughts". They are very
powerful but when you humbly, sincerely ask Father for help in Jesus
name and you will suddenly realize you are back out of your insane,
meaningless thought stream and your "mind" will clear. As this
happens.., sit very still and wait.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi59F3iCjAk0NKBTOhNXZEBj2iXuf9C5IYR-ALakU6yQ7KXnwiD3AYoo-h3HxrQro3t8FxgAcdT3Otj0jsrbYLKYfDi3rEJXSxp1uw6-6alYVj867al24hiPOQLbWUG_1sDsTcQHuN0E4o/s1600/god.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi59F3iCjAk0NKBTOhNXZEBj2iXuf9C5IYR-ALakU6yQ7KXnwiD3AYoo-h3HxrQro3t8FxgAcdT3Otj0jsrbYLKYfDi3rEJXSxp1uw6-6alYVj867al24hiPOQLbWUG_1sDsTcQHuN0E4o/s1600/god.jpg" /></a>Your
ego-self is VERY arrogant as are the spirits/"powers of darkness" and
they "hide" in your SUB-conscious. Until now.., "it" has not had to
"come out of hiding". BUT.., "it" will because "it" WANTS you "lost" in
"its" THINKING. "It" WILL come up out of your SUBconscious to "fill the
void" [of your QUIETED mind] and "it" may give you "images" and "voices"
to try and terrify you. THAT is what you've been harboring and
abetting. "Be still and KNOW I am God." NOT THINK you know He is God.<br />
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Sit
patiently. When these "things arise" [and they will].., DO NOT "run".
The phone may ring. Your mom may call you to supper. "Things you HAVE to
get done" will "pop into mind". "It" will do anything to run you off if
"it" can't scare you off.<br />
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Practice
clearing your mind as often as you can so you can do it without
THINKING about it. THAT process is the BEGINNING of SLOWLY opening your
spiritual eyes/awakening. Remember.., DO NOT FEAR. DO NOT RUN. Wait. You
will see.., "it" CANNOT harm you. "FACE" what you've allowed to "build a
home in you". "It" is disgusting. "It" is capable of all manner of
evil. "It" is SELFISH, PRIDEFUL, ARROGANT and UGLY. FACE IT. SEE IT. And
when you are "shown".., BE THANKFUL for being shown and thank Our
Father and His Son for giving you the chance to repent. In the
"stillness".., let Father and Jesus KNOW you are TRULY sorry and want
THEIR change to come over/into/up through you.<br />
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DO
this. It is VERY important. †††Now you've been told. You've been
warned. Understand.., FEW are willing to face the evil they have become a
part of. MOST run like a bolt of lightning hit them. The "path" you
THINK you have chosen is NOT for "little sisters". If you can get
through what you must.., you will learn to be still and LISTEN. Talk
with Father. Ask what you can DO for Him. If you are TRULY sincere..,
then maybe Father/Son will take you further. I don't know. That is
between you and Them.<br />
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Also..,
be warned.., this is no intellectual, ego game. IF you are TRULY
sincere you will start getting much better. If not.., you will be
further "entranced" in your brain thinking and get MUCH worse. )<br />
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Please read <span style="color: blue;">The Way</span> <span style="color: blue;">home or </span><span style="color: red;">face </span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: red;">The Fire</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.net/">http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.net</a></span><br />
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Please also read "The Divine in me"<br />
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True Feministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978735297370616551noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8577696179063846604.post-37418394848354280102014-06-01T01:11:00.002-07:002017-02-06T07:43:21.171-08:00How to use The Force [Love]<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Written by </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #343434; font-family: "open sans" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11px;">Tom Von Deck</span></div>
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<span style="background: white; color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 8.5pt;"><a href="http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/03/smite-your-enemies-with-mindfulness-tom-von-deck/">http://www.elephantjournal.com/2014/03/smite-your-enemies-with-mindfulness-tom-von-deck/</a></span><br />
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People who develop mindfulness are pretty tough to mess with.</h3>
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"Maybe
you’ve discovered this before, after messing with the wrong person one
time and learning a painful and heart opening lesson. Maybe it was the
other way around.</div>
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Mindfulness
is a powerful force that can be used for what many in metaphysical
circles call “psychic self-defense.” It can be likened to a martial art
that can transform any conflict or uncomfortable social situation into a
catalyst for deep healing. It can also protect us from any harm a
person can inflict if used properly.</div>
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgElL5tbFfVDljx06eP0NJzLCar_J8cMNiaq_fc-l_qXIThQr3dFAGPYjT-cEnxQFDoiFM58DnNasRIEzzXVELzpPN7_39d7bZTmVEWkIS9aXr4bTVEB1w-SJLW-I3Z3tyNX682iWCCLhk/s1600/enemy.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgElL5tbFfVDljx06eP0NJzLCar_J8cMNiaq_fc-l_qXIThQr3dFAGPYjT-cEnxQFDoiFM58DnNasRIEzzXVELzpPN7_39d7bZTmVEWkIS9aXr4bTVEB1w-SJLW-I3Z3tyNX682iWCCLhk/s1600/enemy.jpg" width="310" /></a><span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">First let me explain, in case some readers don’t know,
what mindfulness is. Mindfulness is the art of being present with moment to
moment experience as it arises into consciousness. This includes both pleasant
and unpleasant emotions, thoughts, sensations and anything else that can be
experienced.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">When
we’re not mindful, our breath is easily affected in difficult situations. When
an experience is unpleasant, we may restrict our breathing to avoid feeling it.
We may become reactive to a person because we fear experiencing difficult
truths about ourselves.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">In some
cases, we might start a conflict because there is some truth about ourselves
that the ego doesn’t want to experience and we project that quality onto the
other person. We may even escalate a conflict because of resentment of our
current experience with the person. We are much more vulnerable to the
negativity coming from others.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">With
mindfulness, the breath is deep and free. During unpleasant situations, it
remains unaffected. We are not burying any unpleasant information about
ourselves. We are simply noting what is going on while still participating with
what is going on. There is nothing to resent. Everything is just a set of
processes happening in the moment, and we are joyfully embracing them whether
we’re angry, sad or scared.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Most of
the tension in our bodies comes from being unwilling to confront and experience
something. There may be old wounds or feelings that the ego feels are best left
untouched. Tension allows us to avoid experience.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRc7E1Wzyyz63JkZ58VhHpbaaWCWaWXGcTq82o4iSzNGGty5Q3pdunrQ08bs7SwS0a1hlEU5XJWxrTrkXk9heJBfaMKMbYvuqA6w1NHYWiT4RORGhWXIigqs_271y8Ru8RkNdSyN646do/s1600/reflection.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRc7E1Wzyyz63JkZ58VhHpbaaWCWaWXGcTq82o4iSzNGGty5Q3pdunrQ08bs7SwS0a1hlEU5XJWxrTrkXk9heJBfaMKMbYvuqA6w1NHYWiT4RORGhWXIigqs_271y8Ru8RkNdSyN646do/s1600/reflection.jpg" style="cursor: move;" /></a><span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Mindfulness
allows us to open to experience and to shine the light of <b>awareness </b>on
unresolved issues. A tension point in the body-mind is like a wall that creates
separation instead of flow. Mindfulness breaks down these walls so that
consciousness can start flowing. The less walls obstruct the flow, the more
whole we become. There is less division in the body-mind.</span></div>
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<span style="background: white; color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Have you ever had a series of people treating you in a
negative way? One of them leaves your life, and then another one pops up and
treats you in the same way?</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">If this situation is in the past and no
one’s bothering you in that way anymore, then maybe you notice that there was
some tension you were holding then that doesn’t seem to exist now. There was
some part of yourself that you finally “faced”, even if it was in gradual
increments.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">It may have taken years for you to get to
that point where you finally cleared the issues that people and situations were
exploiting. Mindfulness accelerates this process. It allows you to really heal
yourself on a deep level and “kick some ass” at the same time.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Every interaction is an opportunity for
healing.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"><b>In both peaceful and uncomfortable
situations, when we heal long held tension and release it, we are actually
helping the others to release their corresponding tension. In a tense
situation, it is this that is going to bring a serious butt whoopin’ to the
opponent while healing both ourselves and the opponent at the same time.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">All of this works via subtle processes.
There are very subtle processes that brought the two “opponents” (for lack of a
better term) together in the first place.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">There are always body sensations that come
up when we’re dealing with people. Some are very pleasant, some are not very
pleasant and some just plain spook us out.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">One key to applying mindfulness
is to embrace the experience that is happening inside us. This will provide
clues about the subtle connection that is bonding us together at the moment and
the tension we are holding.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Suppose your recurring problem
is people talking over you all the time. Every time someone talks over you
while you are attempting to speak, certain feelings come up.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">By applying mindfulness, you
are more acutely aware of the tension that you’ve been holding—the tension that
leads to these experiences in the first place. These sensations are clues that
point to what needs to be embraced and willfully experienced to break the
cycle.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">If you fear public speaking,
feelings also come up when you walk up to the podium. You may be immobilized by
the inability to embrace the experience fully.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">There have been many cases when
someone finally faced the experience and had a huge breakthrough. Not only did
they become much more comfortable and loose onstage, but they released a whole
lot of old tension that won’t stand in their way ever again. They felt much
lighter after the breakthrough. This is the kind of thing we’re aiming for.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Paying attention to body
sensations is an essential step to breaking negative recurring cycles. In the
above examples, there is the experience the ego is resisting, and the
resistance is always a form of tension. Let go of the tension, and the
recurring unpleasant experience will disappear.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">If the unpleasant situation is
triggered by other people, then either those people will disappear or their
underlying issues that lead to our pain will disappear. Whatever the case, we
will not keep experiencing it if we let go of that tension, whether gradually
or all at once.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">The more you practice meditation, the
greater your ability to transform all types of conflict into healing
opportunities in any given moment. Your access to a spacious and all-embracing
consciousness will become easier in each situation as time goes on.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Yl1nXCW2wuvAwpWwfgfs0YfXnE56Vq3tAglE73jJMTanzNa_pIWo3KKU3kt-oA2P-0mJaUxzbPK2mPzU5mauH6kY96YjK1FNP0G6fhRbLhPey8fCAO2OFzLK1eS-Uii8O5Q-dd2oUrM/s1600/log.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9Yl1nXCW2wuvAwpWwfgfs0YfXnE56Vq3tAglE73jJMTanzNa_pIWo3KKU3kt-oA2P-0mJaUxzbPK2mPzU5mauH6kY96YjK1FNP0G6fhRbLhPey8fCAO2OFzLK1eS-Uii8O5Q-dd2oUrM/s1600/log.jpg" /></a><span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">“</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="color: blue;">First take the log out of your own eye,
and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.</span></span><span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">”</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">~ Matthew 7:5 English Standard Version</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Jesus wasn’t saying that if you
get rid of your own blemish, then you have a right to judge your brother. When
you release your own tension, you’ll catalyze great healing in the other person
and perhaps even force it without trying. After that, you may run into someone
else who has the same problem. Instead of running into more problems, you are
now in the position to help them overcome theirs.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #343434; font-family: "arial" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Regular cultivation of
mindfulness is the key to clearing the log and the speck.</span></div>
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If
you’ve been spending time cultivating mindfulness, try putting some of
these principles into practice. You may deepen your understanding of the
link between meditation and martial arts.</div>
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Open up a can of whoop-ass and champion the cause of peace."</div>
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joRoU-CFvMY"><span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times" , serif;"><i>Please watch here for a short video clip</i></span></span></a><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times" , serif;"><i><br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joRoU-CFvMY"></a></i></span></span>
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<b><i><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Emotion is the chief "commodity" of selfishness. For the ego to survive apart from God, it must create scenes during which it can "trade" emotions. - <a href="http://fhu.com/">Roy Masters</a></span></i></b><br />
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Roy Masters: Foundation of Human understanding <a href="http://www.fhu.com/">www.fhu.com</a><br />
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Facing and overcoming <b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">anger:</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">“<span style="background-color: white; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial;">To avoid all these unpleasant
repercussions, you must learn how to be patient with selfish and thoughtless
people. You must learn to remain poised and calm under pressure; otherwise,
what is wrong in them will show up in you and make you look like the bad guy. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="background-color: white; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial;">Then, everyone is so surprised with your emotional overreaction that they fail
to see what they did wrong to provoke that reaction—and that in turn becomes
another unjust, upsetting, frustrating, and scary experience for you.</span></span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRc7E1Wzyyz63JkZ58VhHpbaaWCWaWXGcTq82o4iSzNGGty5Q3pdunrQ08bs7SwS0a1hlEU5XJWxrTrkXk9heJBfaMKMbYvuqA6w1NHYWiT4RORGhWXIigqs_271y8Ru8RkNdSyN646do/s1600/reflection.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRc7E1Wzyyz63JkZ58VhHpbaaWCWaWXGcTq82o4iSzNGGty5Q3pdunrQ08bs7SwS0a1hlEU5XJWxrTrkXk9heJBfaMKMbYvuqA6w1NHYWiT4RORGhWXIigqs_271y8Ru8RkNdSyN646do/s1600/reflection.jpg" /></a><span style="background-color: white; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; font-family: Georgia, serif;">Emotional self-control is the key you are seeking. You very
life depends on your responding in a right way to what is wrong with you, so
that it cannot get inside and rip you apart.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11pt;">Your main line of defense is to stay
calm and patient. Seeing you unmoved, the motivator’s tactics backfire on him.
He or she becomes upset, loses power, and panics. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11pt;">The game is over. So learn to
put up an invisible, impenetrable force shield of calm patience around you. It
will allow the good to come through, but will stop the ugly world from getting
in and growing up inside you to control your destiny.</span></div>
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<span style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11pt;">Instead of reacting with upset, what if you could
learn to look injustice straight in the eye, without flinching—patiently,
calmly and with endless endurance? Surely then you would not have the problems
of repressing or expressing resentment. You would be in control. This then is
the basis for a truly enlightened stress-reduction program: learning the secret
of self-control through patience.” </span><span style="background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11pt;"><a href="http://jahtruth.net/yodas.htm">http://jahtruth.net/yodas.htm</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 13.5pt;">Please watch this short video clip for a quick demonstration here: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joRoU-CFvMY">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joRoU-CFvMY</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Choosing <b>peace – </b>by
Lawrence Wilson.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Another
aspect of letting go that is often overlooked is a decision that must accompany
letting go. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It is to<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b><i>consciously choose to be at
peace within</i></b>. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Since
this is a bit complex, I want to explain it carefully. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>First, let us examine this in more
detail. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It means a
deliberate choice to be at peace all of the time, not just when things are
going well and life is fun. Also, it means choosing for peace even if it
hurts – and it will hurt at times.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">For
example, it can mean giving up the sweet feeling of revenge against friends and
others who appear to slight you or harm you. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It can mean walking away from a
situation in which you could choose to fight back. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Of course, sometimes fighting is the
correct response, but it must be done from a place of peace within. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>This is the key, and it is not an easy
thing to understand. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Jesus
of Nazareth called this idea <b>“the peace
that <span class="spelle">passeth</span><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>all
understanding”</b>. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>In
other words, it must come from within. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It
is not about gritting your teeth and walking away, or putting on a happy smile
while you fume underneath. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>One
can fight a fair fight without anger and resentment. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>That is the idea</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Now let
us discuss more about what choosing for peace within does not mean. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It does not mean denying your anger,
fear or upset. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It means
observing your feelings, expressing them when appropriate, and then letting
them go.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">It also
does not mean being a doormat or avoiding confrontation. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It means learning how to communicate
effectively and acting boldly, at times, but not from anger. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Mr. Roy Masters loves to say it is
possible to be strong without being wrong, meaning angry.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">It does
not mean protesting all defense spending - a legitimate function of the federal
government. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Nor
does it mean to be a pacifist. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Sometimes
an action of another demands a forceful response. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It means to be at peace inside
yourself even if you are in a fight. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>This
attitude takes some time to cultivate, but is a wonderful way to live.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">A
phrase to practice is "<i>I can be at peace with this</i>" (no matter
what 'this' is). <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>It is
possible to be at peace even in the midst of chaos and war. There are many
stories of people who achieve this feat. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Of the finest, two that are somewhat
familiar are the stories of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln in American
history. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>These men were
surrounded by chaos, horror, intrigue, and very bad living conditions. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Yet they remained calm, and as a
result inspired the nation.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Always recall that this kind of peace within, or your lack
thereof, always affects those around you. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>When you choose peace within, others
see that they too have this choice. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>This
is a wonderful gift to your children and others around you. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>However, if you continue to be caught
up in outer events and tied to your past traumas, anger and resentments, you
will keep those around you somewhat caught up as well. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Keep this in mind, as it is a key to
family peace and relationship success. <span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>Be
the model, in other words, rather than waiting for others to let go of their
past and treat you as you wish to be treated.</span></b><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">” </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Please read "<span style="color: blue;">The Way home or</span> <span style="color: red;">face The Fire</span>" </span><br />
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Galatians <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="5_22">5:22</a> But the fruit of the Spirit is love, <u><b>joy</b></u>, <u><b>peace, </b></u>longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,<br />
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="5_23">5:23</a> Meekness,<u><b> temperance:</b></u> against such there is no Law.</div>
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<a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=8577696179063846604" name="16_1">King of kings Bible http://jahtruth.net/kofkad.htm</a><br />
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<a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=8577696179063846604" name="16_1">Thomas 16:1</a> Simon Peter said to them: Let Mary go out from among us,
because women are not worthy of the Life.<br /><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=8577696179063846604" name="16_2">16:2</a> Jesus said:
<span style="color: #0000af;">See, I shall lead her, so that I will make
her male, that she too may become a Living spirit, resembling you males. For
every woman who makes herself male will enter the Kingdom of Heaven.</span> AMEN</div>
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True Feministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978735297370616551noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8577696179063846604.post-42341689707331517462014-06-01T00:52:00.001-07:002017-02-16T04:45:34.123-08:00The taming of the Shrew<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Who REALLY wears the pants in the house, Ladies?</span><br />
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this is quite a sensitive topic for most women; however I thought I’d
share with you my experience on being a dominant one <b><i>, <span style="background-color: white;">instead of being a Lady</span></i></b><span style="background-color: white;">.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Life for me was difficult as a child, as my step-father was an <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">alcoholic</b>, and I hardly saw my real father so I had <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">lacked proper discipline</span>. My mom was either at <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">work</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>or cleaning the house [my 2 other siblings and I did help her], but she was understandably <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">tired</span> and <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">irritated</span> most of the time, so </span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">there was </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">no time</b> for her to <span style="color: black; mso-themecolor: text1;">teach us</span><span style="color: red;"> </span><b style="font-family: Calibri;">Love.</b><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: "calibri";"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">I met my husband and we got married. Sadly, I carried the <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">curse</span> of “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">all men are worthless</b>” into my marriage, <b><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DY5GVqLKm5Q" target="_blank">by continuously criticizing the credibility of every decision that my husband made</a> </b>[<span style="color: red;"><----- </span><i><span style="color: red;">link to youtube clip 1 from The Taming of the Shrew</span></i>]<b>. </b></span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3O7CmUgty5bcDm3gA2DyEKO-jSBhyphenhyphenBNdsznjPOU6iT_DvmQdfhaZQAU-OmtybXH0u-vJVRRTUQQxSU4KcQdSuZ38zvzTVOXkih4Dz0ihfwZdbAUsMeu72yADwzOW8eJv6FsuDvRsvlEI/s1600/19CA2A3GEJCAZUF107CAVPUUAKCARPMIQ4CA2E4T83CAZREZTKCAWCOZNTCAQ94T5MCAQKTL3WCADJBIYICA78E942CAULI1MUCAE8OROFCAX11M67CADJALOYCA1XWC1OCAO88HY1CAG2Y1M8CAJF4N1ECAUZH86P.gif" style="clear: right; display: inline !important; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3O7CmUgty5bcDm3gA2DyEKO-jSBhyphenhyphenBNdsznjPOU6iT_DvmQdfhaZQAU-OmtybXH0u-vJVRRTUQQxSU4KcQdSuZ38zvzTVOXkih4Dz0ihfwZdbAUsMeu72yADwzOW8eJv6FsuDvRsvlEI/s1600/19CA2A3GEJCAZUF107CAVPUUAKCARPMIQ4CA2E4T83CAZREZTKCAWCOZNTCAQ94T5MCAQKTL3WCADJBIYICA78E942CAULI1MUCAE8OROFCAX11M67CADJALOYCA1XWC1OCAO88HY1CAG2Y1M8CAJF4N1ECAUZH86P.gif" /></a><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><b><br /></b></span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">At the time, I couldn't see through my own</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "calibri";"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">arrogance,</b></span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> that what I was doing was </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">wrong</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";">, and was the </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">reason</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> of </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">why</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> my husband didn't want to be at home with me and our children. In my mind, I thought, “Could my mom be right”?</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">I didn't want to believe this, as my mom and I didn't see eye to eye on many things in life, as her </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">constant degrading of my father</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";">, </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">step-father</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> and comparisons of us [my younger sister and me] to </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">them</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";">, lead us into many arguments.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Things gradually went <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">downhill</span> in my marriage, and my husband sought an “<span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">escape</span>” from the <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">degradation</span> at home, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">caused by me</b>. His “escape” route was an expensive and <span style="background-color: white;">very traumatic experience</span> for all concerned. Although drugs/alcohol is “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">the coward’s way out</b>” for escaping reality; it did its work by <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">removing the pain</span> that <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I had caused</span> by “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">castrating</b>” him [metaphorically].</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">On the other hand, </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I was not coping either</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">. I had my own “escape” route. Something was </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">not right</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> with my marriage. The ONLY marital guidance that my family and the church could offer me was to get </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">divorced</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">, which I didn’t want.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">God led me to a video to watch called “The Taming of the Shrew” starring
Elizabeth Taylor. Although I had read the Biblical Teachings on the role
of a woman, my understanding of <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">HOW</b> to be obedient was not there, until I “visualized” it in this movie; which was my <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-k4nlA-OMA" target="_blank">“<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">aha</b>” [enlightening]</a> moment. [<span style="color: red;"><-----<i>link to youtube clip</i> 2 <i>from the Taming of the Shrew</i></span>]</span><br />
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day, a heated argument arose via e-mail between my husband and me. I
expected a fight when he got home, so I asked God how I should handle
it. He reminded me of what Elizabeth Taylor did in the movie in what was
almost the same situation, which was to <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">stop arguing</b> with my husband; and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">submit to him</b>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">My
husband came home and entered the room that I was in. He said; “Okay,
you want to fight, I’m listening”. My response was “No, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">you are right</b>.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
look on his face was that of SHOCK [who are you, and what did you do
with my wife? – that type of look]. He then asked again “I know you want
to fight, I’m waiting” My response was “No, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">you’re right</b>”. Again that same look of shock, followed by a moment of silence, followed by words from his mouth that I had <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">SO LONGED</b> to hear - with a look in his eyes and tone of voice of an <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">unconditional love and compassion </span>– “<span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I love you</span>”. It was such an <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">enlightening</span> moment for us <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">both</span>, that <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u>only</u></span> once you’ve experienced it; could you understand. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">It was an experience [I thought] could <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">only</span> happen <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">in movies</span>. <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">RECEIVING</span>, <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">SEEING</span> and <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">FEELING</span> that Love that is so <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">real</b> and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">fulfilling</b>; it completely erased all the bitter, painful, unnecessary memories of heated arguments and failures of the past; when <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">all </span>that my husband wanted from me was to <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">STOP arguing</span> with him, and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TE9uY6Z19fc" target="_blank"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">start SUPPORTING</b> him.</a> [<span style="color: red;"><---- </span><i><span style="color: red;">link to youtube clip 3 from the Taming of the Shrew</span></i>]</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">I still find myself trying to take the </span><span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">lead </span><span style="font-family: "calibri";">again here and there; but my husband now </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">FIRMLY</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> and </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">LOVINGLY</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> guides my footsteps in the right direction. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4xQnL9jep7A</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> [</span><span style="color: red; font-family: "calibri";"><----</span><i style="font-family: calibri;"><span style="color: red;">link to youtube clip 4</span></i><span style="font-family: "calibri";">] </span></div>
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<b style="font-family: calibri;">Thank-You Father</b><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> in heaven.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">I’ll end off with some <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">words of Wisdom</i></b> quoted from a book called “THIS IS A GREAT MYSTERY MARRIAGE GUIDANCE” </span><a href="http://jahtruth.net/marguide.htm"><span style="font-family: "calibri";">http://jahtruth.net/marguide.htm</span></a></div>
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<i>At the time of creation of woman, the suitable companion for Adam, it should be noted that woman is to be man's helper.<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b>The one is the complement of the other</b>, therefore they are a perfect unity, under Divine direction.</i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">But
after their act of disobedience, that unity is lost; the harmony
between them becomes discord, and they no longer have confidence in each
other. The man blames the woman for his state, and she blames the power
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">But, it could well be that in time;<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">rather than acknowledge her</b><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">crime and accept her own</b><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">responsibility for it</b>;<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">she would blame the man for not preventing her action, so that a growing tension between them is inevitable.</b></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Divine
intervention with Law for this new condition of the sinning creatures,
places authority in the man, and the woman hears the pronouncement, "thy
desire [shall be subject] to thy husband, and<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b>HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE</b>". (Gen. 3:16)</i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">A
supreme authority there must be to maintain order. When the unity of
man and woman was obedient to the "I AM", there was peace on Earth, the
ultimate authority resting on the One Source.</i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">But
in discord between man and woman and between that unit in separation
from the "I AM", restoration of law and order must be movement from the
Godhead to the creatures. So the demonstration of this is set up by the
"I AM" proclaiming that in the first being (man) remains Authority,
whether in Divine Presence or degraded, sinful humanity.</i></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Obedience then to Divine Law is</i></b><span class="apple-converted-space"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> </i></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i>the means whereby the man and woman recove</i></b><i>r<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">their
contact with the "I AM", and is also the means of bringing peace
between themselves. Thus unity, harmony and peace are again shown to be
in obedience to Divine Authority.”</b></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11pt;">Please read:</span><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">Why people REALLY take drugs <a href="http://jahtruth.net/drugs.htm">http://jahtruth.net/drugs.htm</a></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-size: 11pt;">The incalculable damage being caused by sexist and misleading advertising </span><a href="http://jahtruth.net/men.htm"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">http://jahtruth.net/men.htm</span></a><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span><br />
The Truth about infertility and women's liberation <a href="http://jahtruth.net/fertil.htm">http://jahtruth.net/fertil.htm</a><br />
<span style="color: blue;">The Way home or</span> <span style="color: red;">face The Fire</span> <a href="http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.net/">http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.net</a><br />
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